Gentlemen may I offer a little advice?
You are NOT what you do at work!!!!!!!! You are a spouse, companion, friend, lover, father, brother......
You and the world deserve better, than for you to think of yourself so narrowly. That just because you do whatever it is that you do, that's who you are is just so wrong. Want confirmation?
Your kids don't have a clue what you do and they still like you.
Gents it's cold outside. Drop her off at the door, she'll wait for you... inside.
(Can you tell I have spent too much time with the recently unemployed lately?)
3 hours ago