Girl Day

A friend of ours just had her first baby, happily all are well. Which reminded me our my first born's arrival. We were way too young, and I could read from the hospital window, a bus kiosk with the poster for a prenatal clinic who's tag line was " It's like being grounded for 18 years". I'll remember that moment forever.

Having a daughter was a wonderful experience especially for a guy who didn't have sisters. My mission in life, after our daughter's birth, was to raise no mouseburger. I wanted our daughter to know she could accomplish everything she set her mind to. I like to think I've been successful. I I've been blessed by her life.

Occasionally, I'll run across some bit of dross which reminds me of what a gift women are to a man's life. How the playing field isn't level, and never will be, in spite of our best efforts and wishes.



This is a current Nike ad, I first saw at the gym. It speaks volumes, quietly.

LPC of Privilege recently tackled the sticky wicket of what makes a lady, and I believe she scratched the veneer, but not the substance of her topic. Mayhaps, I misunderstood, and apologize to her in advance if I am wrong.

To my mind a "Lady" has nothing to do with position or net worth, and everything to do with personal integrity. A lady stands for something, proudly and unashamably. She is a beacon to all she comes into contact. She is a woman who values herself, her family and friends. She's honest in all her dealings, will accept no guff, and will not tolerate slip shod dealings from herself or others.

Her children are well mannered, know right from wrong, understand the consequences of bad behavior and live in dread of disappointing her.

She loves, from the bottom of her heart.

As I've matured I have come to realize what a civilizing influence women have on men's behavior. Thank you ladies for making this a better world.

Toad
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